Start with a restrained profile
Use a neutral display name, a short clear bio, and avoid identifying details at the start. A discreet profile can still feel genuine and attractive.
Move slowly in messaging
Give conversations time before meeting. A deliberate pace helps you spot inconsistencies and better assess whether the other person respects discretion.
Control photo sharing
Prefer private photos shared selectively. Keep public photos neutral and reserve more sensitive images for trusted conversations only.